I wouldn't wish my upbringing on anyone else.
She couldn't imagine an upbringing with no parents, a clan of brothers who hated him, and no ability to change his nature.
Maybe that backward upbringing was the reason she wanted him to be the decision maker.
My upbringing after that can be called interesting.
Even as a boy he was concerned for the upbringing of his half-brothers, his mother's children by Owen Tudor.