You should do your best to acclimate to your surroundings instead of pining for something better.
After rejecting then pining for him for a few days, she wasn't ready for him to be less confused than she was.
Half the time pining for Miss Wonderful and the other half whining because she ripped my heart out!
If you want to discuss sympathy, think about poor me, pining away for a hot time and getting nada.
An added benefit to spaying and neutering is cat owners will not have to withstand the pining of toms when neighborhood queens are in heat or the erratic nocturnal behavior of a queen in estrus.