You should do your best to acclimate to your surroundings instead of pining for something better.
If you want to discuss sympathy, think about poor me, pining away for a hot time and getting nada.
After rejecting then pining for him for a few days, she wasn't ready for him to be less confused than she was.
Half the time pining for Miss Wonderful and the other half whining because she ripped my heart out!
You will think I'm pining away for my beloved Wrentham, which is true in one sense and not in another.