He was in love with a ghost and unwilling to take a chance on you.
I didn't take a chance on you for the reason you think.
For taking a chance on me.
You tear me away from the only stability I have in my life, expect me to change my view on the entire world overnight, reject me and now, you're asking me to take a chance on something you can't guarantee.
But I wouldn't want to take a chance on losing you.