When looking at the controversy from this perspective, you can see why there is a misperception that relationships don't last long or are dangerous via online verses meeting men in-person.
This numbers game causes some of the controversy and the reason for the misperception.
How does the practitioner do in cases of RSPK (poltergeists), misperception / misinterpretation, and fraud?
This misperception lasted for a short time and played a role in the show's storyline.
It's also a very common misperception, a lie allowed to persist by G****e's sickening mendacity.