Try to plan the majority of your dates for times when your child is with your ex-spouse, visiting grandparents, or gone to a friend's house.
If you and your ex-spouse agree to a joint custody agreement, different computations will be used to find out who would be required to pay child support.
Are you still sleeping with your ex-spouse?
Do you still have your ex-spouse's photos displayed in your home, office or wallet?
Do you still have clothing or very personal property that belonged to your ex-spouse?